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But this is what I did one tipsy night my first year in college classic. As a girl, making out with a girl is easy — their lips are softer, the absence of stubble is refreshing, and mixing lip glosses all over your face is a tasty mess.
The vagina, by sheer de, is just trickier than the penis. And the clitoris? Penises, on the other hand, are just And how could I have? Because of this, heterosexual men and even women themselves struggle to learn about vaginal pleasure. Throw homophobia and stereotypes into the mix and us LGBTQ folks are screwed when it comes to learning how to screw. While sex ed is a required part of the health curriculum in the public schools of 22 states and the District of Columbia, information specifically for LGBTQ youth is not mandated as part of the lesson plans.
Where do we go to learn how to sexually pleasure another vagina? These self-education avenues rarely if ever teach us how to communicate with our partners about sexual pleasure , and they barely skim over consent, two key components of healthy and pleasurable sex. Mass media manages to offer us a limiting, predetermined course of action for penis-and-vagina sex: foreplay, intercourse, male ejaculation, fin. But there is no classical road map when it comes to vagina-on-vagina action not even a half-baked one!
It seemed to take hours before our shirts came off. We were more successful the next time, and over the course of our year-long relationship, I really got the sex-with-a-girl-thing down. First things first, always check with your partner about how they want their body parts referred to. Diamond , or watch true-blue, bonafide queer porn sex scenes like those from the Crash Pad Series. Learning anatomy on the or the screen rather than in-the-moment takes the pressure off your partner to speak for all queer people with vaginas and will give you a leg or labia up when you get down to licking, sucking and fucking.
Sleeping with a similarly new-to-vaginas partner has its pros and cons. If you were ever in high school, chances are you know how awkward sex can be when two virgins are trying to have it. Letting someone with more experience take the lead initially is easier, and learning by example is pleasurable to say the least.
Plus, if this adventure turns out to be a one-night-only experimentation, you likely run a lower risk of hurting the feelings of someone already firmly invested in the queerness quest. Of course, your long, sculpted manicure is lovely.
But so is my cervix. If you're a fierce femme with nails to match, wear a glove before you try to fingerbang with your digit-decorations, which might cause discomfort for the person on the receiving end. Even consider adding an extra buffer for your babe by stuffing a cotton ball at the end of each finger of the glove.
Or leave the manicure out of it entirely and opt for a handheld dildo that mani-matches, such as the shiny stainless steel NJoy wands. Chowing down on fish tacos, munching carpet, dining beneath the bridge, yodeling in the love canyon, lapping the labia — whatever you want to call it, cunnilingus is one of the staples of lesbian sex and hello, any sex involving a vagina! Cunnlingus can feel intimidating at first but think back to your first blowjob. Probably not. Whatever you do, remember that tracing the alphabet is for tots, not for twats. Get more cunnlingus tips from yours truly-good-at-it before going down.
Though this might be a fun ride on the rainbow rollercoaster for you, queer women may actually have legitimate feelings for other women, so treat those feelings with respect. What all partners have responded well to is my being open to feedback and learning about their bodies, my asking questions about what they like and want, and by practicing active consent.
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